How to Restore and Maintain Healthy Relationships

This is an interesting read: Uzoamaka loved her new dress. She couldn’t wait to show it to her friend Ogochukwu. The two decided to meet up for a drink and a laugh. Ogochukwu loved the dress too. She immediately said, “That dress would be perfect for my date Night with Emeka. Can I borrow it?” Uzoamaka hesitated, but decided a friend was more valuable than an article of clothing, so she agreed. When she got the dress back, there was a wine stain and a hole at the back of the dress. Ogochukwu apologized profusely, saying, “It must have unraveled. I’m so sorry.” Uzoamaka nodded and said, “Oh, it’s okay.” But things were never the same between them. Uzoamaka felt Ogochukwu had taken advantage of her. Ogochukwu thought Uzoamka had overreacted over a simple article of clothing. Over time, the friendship unraveled like the dress. What would have happened if Ogochukwu had offered to repair or replace the dress . . . and maybe bought her a top to apologize? You see, responsibility toward others are key to restoring relationships. Broken relationships are always our responsibility. If someone has something against us, try to make it right and if we have something against another, we’re responsible to take the initiative to settle our differences with them. It’s never easy to take the first step at reconciliation. But it’s always the right thing to do. When you apologise for a wrong doing , you not only free your mind, your relationship with that person becomes richer!!!

THE GIANT THAT CAN NO LONGER STAND

Cheers Iran, here's to welcoming you into the oil market... Another player to the saturated market. Nigeria is like the prodigal son, but this time 'he' lived during the reign of Joseph. After the vision by Joseph, he failed to store up its harvests , rather he ate it all up, forgetting that the years of plenty will be over !!! Nigeria had almost a decade of oil price boom, and rather than storing/saving and building infrastructure and creating investments for the future, she blew all the proceeds from petro-dollar, igniting a new kind of appetite that has become a monstrosity. With the big appetites and dwindling fortune from oil, it can no longer stand or sustain the monster that she has created!!! America lifting the years long sanction on Iran will create an oil price free fall..... I hope and pray for Nigeria our trade relations with the west revolve around the oil and natural gas sectors. Since 2005 we have been promised diversification, this is 2016, there hasn't been much of that basically our major exports are oil, timber , leather and cocoa . A country once known as the largest food exporter has been the largest food importer!!!! What more can I say......

Penultimate Night in Malaysia

Dear kittens..... How time files when one is having so much fun. You literarily want to slow down the clock and take in as much as possible, but it's best to leave some fun for another day. It's been 13 days of de- stressing 13 days of no generator sound.... 13 days and no anxiety of PHCN wahala.... With all I have seen, heard and done most especially people I have met... One person in particular ..... It was definitely worth all the expenses!!! You know Cupid does know how to strike, yeah.. Despite an existing communication - face to face contact supersedes, as it either confirm your gut feelings or leaves you wondering what and why you thought the way you did....in my case the former applies and I am matching on into the future with positivity, faith, hope and God to seal "That which concerns us" Lots of business ideas and opportunities here.... As well as a million and one thing to do, I will advice and urge you to visit Malaysia - see all there is to see and Marvel at how wonderful God really is - he created the earth beautifully. The Malaysians are intent in preserving their culture and history - this is were I noticed a big GAP in Nigeria... We need to start now and preserve our history if not for financial benefits, for our next generation for our lost countrymen in dispeora who will one day trace their history back home. Hospitality is 100% "tadahala" when it comes to safety , the night life is out of this world insane.... Kittens ensure you include Malaysia as your next vakay spot!!! Asia is truly the next frontier .... The growth is steady and very stable backed with good fundamentals. Leaving Malaysia with love, peace of mind, drive, optimism and memories of places I visited - from the aquatic experience to the train ride to Batu cave and my visit to butik malawati ( fire files ) ..., the night clubs I visited together with my Nigerian neighbour, my best friends elder brother, Korean guys I met on the tours. Not forgetting the Sudanese ladies I met... My cream dr - Safia and friends who treated me and my best Yannis to champagne and BBQ fish, the visit to the national museum, drive to the kings palace, national monument and the city gallrey and the chocolate tasting experience with yannis as well as the Henna gift...... ( thanks to Brittny Klomp) To the hotel attendant with their infectious smile "Nyza" thanks everyone for making my trip unforgettable - my highlight was the train ride to the airport with excitement and meeting Yannis G. for the first time(25th July) is a day to be remembered. A lovely Night to my kittens.... I need all the rest I can get now!!!!! So long

Welcoming myself to Malaysia

Its time I get infected with blogging , I don't know why I come here months apart to blog. Yes I do have interesting stories to post, but the zeal ... Isssh
Anyways this is my first time visiting this continent - Asia and I am in Malaysia. After hearing and reading lots of reviews about it.... My mind was made up and it was only a matter of time before I made plans to visit...
I am pretty much jet lagged and slowly adjusting to the time differences and my tour won't start until tomorrow.... First I am going to tour the beautiful hotel I am staying in- TRADERS HOTEL. I recommend this hotel to anyone wishing to visit Malaysia not only is it so beautiful , it is strategically located at the heart of the city. The city centre. So you get all access and more right from this point...
 I have been told that floor 33 is where the fun is at, as it has the best view of the city and lounge. So imma check it out in 4 hours...

From Bsc to Msc

Dear readers, Yes I have been gone for a while and for good reasons, first to try and get back to this blogging mogo and secondly school work is important and comes first to any other .... Had the shock of my life when my dear friend Susan Goldie Harvey passed on the 14th of feb of this year... I cldnt bring my self to blog about it. Still haven't gotten over the shock but thanks to a good support system that has helped me cope. I had one thing to achieve, my second degree since I was on the final lap, distractions was not welcome. And I am so happy and excited to say yes... I DID IT.. I am now an Msc holder.... I never thought I had it in me to study the way I did, and I continually surprised myself and now I can say, if I can do it.... You can do it as well. Dedication, determination and daring to Dream will put you there, set you apart from others and also from negativity. It's not rocket science but you have to aim high to be able to achieve. I just have my thesis work to go and them be awarded Master of Science in Finance. Please if you get to read this.... and have job offers kindly leave a comment. God Bless you all. Hopefully in the coming days I will have a lot to blog about.... PS: loving is life!!!!

Changing the stereo - type

Helloooo angels... Usually I like to keep my thoughts to myself, but this I had to share. Assignment for you ladies. There is the talk about us female being our own worse enemies... That's true and what is even more interesting is that, we can change this Negative stereo-type. How you might ask.., Simple; Focus on the positive side of your Female Friend, because there is a lot of negative/annoying side in all of us and if you continue to dwell on the negative, you are hurting yourself more by letting those pesky wrinkles take form on ur face. I am urging you to start a new routine in your life... To live free and be happy and focus on that one tiny nice thing about your friend that makes her/ them UNIQUE. The more you compliment and dwell on that likeable qualities the more you are at peace and the more we make the world a better place. Note this, for all the envy and jealousy you feel about your friend, the more she is oblivious to your feelings and guess what, you will continue to be depressed... That's not healthy too. Let's us be the change we seek. And that change starts with you. One day at a time. I am for oneness and love.... Uzochi Daisy Onwunli (poshcateyes)

Man caught having sex with donkey in Enugu

Oddly Enough: A middle aged man, Anayochukwu Okarih, has been arrested for allegedly having sex with a donkey belonging to one Mrs Nnedi Moses of Umuhu, Eha-Amufu in Isi-Uzo Local Government Area of Enugu State. An eyewitness told the Nigerian Tribune in Enugu that the suspect, who hails from Umujovu, Eha-Amufu, was handed over to the police after he was allegedly paraded naked around the town at the weekend. Reports said the slaughter house where the suspect was alleged to have committed the act had been deserted shortly after the suspect was taken to Ikem Divisional Police Station for further interrogation. However, the complainant, Mrs Nnedi Moses, who spoke to reporters, said she became apprehensive when she caught the suspect fumbling with his manhood, adding that he might have contracted HIV and was looking for a way to spread the disease. When contacted, the Police Public Relations Officer, Ebere Amarizu, said the suspect had confessed to the crime but asked for pardon, saying that he did not commit it with his right senses. - Tribune